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Carla's Story
In 1983, my husband and I were the parents of two young daughters, ages six and four, when I became pregnant again. At that time I had a schedule and routine that enabled me to reach goals and have balance in my life.
During my fourth month of pregnancy I learned that I was pregnant with twins. As I drove home that day from the doctor's office, I tried to comprehend what life was going to be like having four children instead of two.
Shortly after our twins arrived home, I was overwhelmed with piles of laundry, dishes, an exhausting schedule and a house of chaos! I often grabbed whatever was available to eat and seldom had enough groceries in the kitchen to make complete, nutritious meals. Waking up to the demands of four children, trying to meet the needs of my husband and facing a household that now overwhelmed me, I often felt depressed with no hope of ever having order in my life again.
One morning after the birth of our twins, my mother came to our home for a visit. I shared all of my frustrations with her and sobbed in self-pity. As she listened intently with love and compassion, she challeneged me with a question at the end of our conversation; "What are you going to do about it?" She encouraged me to focus on the solution instead of the problem. As we sat and assessed my circumstances, we began to come up with ideas and a schedule that we thought might work.
We both agreed that before I could start any of these ideas and schedules I needed help getting caught up. I hired a young girl to baby-sit and do the ironing. My mom and I started cleaning and bringing order to our home. We wrote a weekly menu and a grocery list. I purchased some ready-made meals for times when cooking needed to be a lesser priority. I budgeted one day of baby-sitting a week, which allowed me time out of the house and away from demands. This one day refreshed me physically and mentally.
I realized I was now in a new season of my life, when old schedules and routines no longer worked for me. I knew there were alternative ideas that would work once I learned them. Because my mother helped me through one of the most difficult transitions of my life, I look back on that time as one of the most fruitful, growing years for me. I will always be thankful for the love, support and encouragement my mother gave me.
Adopting Eight Children
As we conquered our challenges over the years, Jim and I talked extensively about adopting and adding children to our family. When our twins turned four years old, we began to inquire about adoption. Over a period of six years from that time, we adopted eight children, which included two sets of twins.
In an average month at our house when all of the children were home, we washed 170-180 tubs of laundry, matched 420 pairs of socks, made 240 school lunches, averaged 60-70 hours of homework and maintained a 3000 square foot home without hired help.
Our Philosophy
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Carla's Resume
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The Book
As our family was growing in numbers, I was constantly challenged to be organized and to use my time wisely. I created schedules, checklists, charts for the family and daily to-do lists for myself. My seven daughters and I learned how to prepare several meals in advance.
I learned quickly the numerous benefits of good time management and organization. It not only allowed me to oversee my household responsibilities with ease, but allowed me more free time to do other things.
After awhile, women began asking me how I managed my large household, prepared several meals, laundry system, morning schedules and find time for myself. More and more women began calling me or showing up at my door step first thing in the morning. I became so busy helping other women, I decided to teach a class and help several people all at once so I could have the time to get back to my own household!
Two hundred and fifty women showed up at my first seminar! After the seminar I was asked to speak at dozen's of other organizations, churches, teach three day retreats and hold more seminars.
Women continually told me how my idea's had made such an impact in their households, that even their husbands noticed the difference!
After handing out hundreds of copies of my charts, checklists and other ideas, I decided it would be easier to put the information into a book. I entitled my book "Organization With Ease" with the desire to circulate the information that was helping women.
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